Friday, 15 July 2016

THAT BOMBER JACKET

oriental style bomber jacket
When I shot these photo's and started writing this post, the date marked 4 weeks since my Grandad passed away. 1 whole bloody month of pure sadness and grief and confusion and worry for everyone left behind.

Where the f**k has the time gone?

This isn't meant to be a depressing post - although I am doing one helluva a job at failing on that part - it's actually the most meaningless, superficial, lack of purpose post that I've ever created because in fact, it's actually just about a bomber jacket.

Lols, doing such a great job of practising my "bloggers are so much more than mannequins posing in front of a camera and talking about a jacket" preach. Soz boos for letting the side down.

But I guess I just looked at this casual outfit, looked at what I got up to that day and it just seemed kinda relevant to say. I have majorly shut myself off from the blogging world over the past 4 weeks. Turning down 4 festivals, 2 press trips, umpteen events and just focusing on the meetings because, you know, still tryna be a sassy business women girl boss and all that....

But as much as I will eventually get myself out there in the big crazy blogging world, a lot has been put into perspective for me lately and the main, most important thing by far is that family, 100%, wholeheartedly come first. So if it means turning down an overnight stay in a stunning hotel with an incredible brand to stay at home and chill with my Nan, that's what I'll do. And you know what, the fomo hits me for about 10 seconds and then it disappears because right there, with the people that I love the most... that's where I will always prefer to be.

Drip-tastic chat over, let's get superficial. Here's a bomber jacket that you kinda all need in your lives...
New look bomber jacker
New look bomber jacker
the elle next door
Because I've not really gone to any super nice, fancy shmancy events lately, my wardrobe has consisted of anything comfortable, anything casual and anything that basically looks slightly more acceptable than an outfit appropriate for Jeremy Kyle but still feels like I'm wearing pyjamas. And this outfit just kinda does that.

The pleather trousers are pretty much surgically attached to my legs, the superstars have definitely seen better days and the choker is a new addition that kinda makes me feel sassy/cool AF and kinda makes me feel like a 13 year old goth. Oh, and the sunnies... the sunglasses are a new addition from Prada via Sunglass hut and they are 10million x cooler than I'll ever be.

So there's that...
Bomber - New Look / Tee - Forever 21 / Trousers - Missguided / Choker - New Look / Trainers - Adidas

And then there's the bomber. This absolute babe was the first "OMFG need in my life" pick from my recent New Look haul and I genuinely haven't taken it off ever since. The only problem is that because it's so babe'in, I feel like the entire blogging world also has it - slight exaggeration, we all know what I really mean is like, 3 or 4 bloggers. Lol - and looks 10x better on them than it does me. But I love how light it is, I love that it looks equally as amazing with a simple tee and jeans than it does with a neutral dress. But mostly, mostly I love that it takes me from Harry Potter loving nerd to vaguely cool. #Winning!

So that brings me to the end of my current everyday go-to look - can I get a Blue Peter badge for making that the most long winded sentence ever? - I'd love to know what your go to look at the moment is? Any standout pieces in your wardrobe that immediately makes you feel sassy af?


As always, thanks so much for reading!

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  1. Girl you still look as f'ing fancy and schmancy as ever, total babe and I have so much time and love for you. I think it's so easy to pass off family and friends for an exciting event, and yesterday it kinda hit me how I wasn't making time for my mum but she's happy to let me go off with freinds because I've not had that for so long. IT MAKES ME WEEP jesus, but you are honestly one lady I have so much respect for. Oh, and miss you too <3

    Lauren x
    Britton Loves | Lifestyle Beauty Wellbeing

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    1. Haha ahh you are such a babe, thank you love!! Totally agree with you too, your Mum sounds like such a dream, she'd be really proud!

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  2. These are some really great photos!

    Candice | Beauty Candy Loves

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  3. I own this bomber jacket and I love it so much - it instantly makes me feel more dressed up than I feel! I managed to grab it whilst it was on sale which I was super happy about. I love what you've paired the bombed with, it's such a great outfit :) xo

    Char | www.charslittleblog.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. Ahh so pleased you like it too, it's so pretty isn't it! Thanks lovely.

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  4. Been wanting to have a bomber jacket! It really looks good on you. Beautiful! <3

    x, Kat of Nested Thoughts

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    1. Thanks so much Katherine, I love it and couldn't recommend it enough!

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  5. You look amazing, and I couldn't agree more. Family is 100% the most important :)

    Sending lots of love to you and your family!

    http://www.thebutter.co.uk/

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    1. Thanks so much Lizzie, such a lovely comment!

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  6. I've noticed that you've distanced yourself from the blogosphere a lot over the past few weeks but that's totally justified! I hope to see you back in action soon hun & on a side note, how good is New Look at the moment! They've definitely stepped up their fashion game!

    www.duchessoffashion.co.uk

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    1. I have, I've just focused on the sponsored content I already had booked in and meetings and some events for brands that I love and just enjoyed time with my family. I think I'll probably keep a pretty similar ratio tbh, it's so needed!

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  7. Love this jacket and love how you styled it, so pretty with the flowers and the color combos! Xx

    www.thefashionfolks.com

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    1. Thanks so much, so happy you like it too!

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  8. Totally agree with everything you say.. Blog opportunities come and go but family will always be there! I'm actually heading out for the day with my nan and grandad today haha. Love spending time with them :) I also love your jacket - you look beaut as always <33 xxx

    Jessie | allthingsbeautiful-x

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    1. Thanks so much Jessie, I couldn't agree more. Ahh have the most fun, cuddle them lots and tell them you love them!

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  9. Being an old lady who did the whole bomber jacket thing in the nineties already, I didn't think I'd get back into them this time around. How wrong was I?! I picked up a khaki one with gold zips from Topshop recently and I can't even express how much I love it. Does it make me feel sassy af? Hell yes! Yours is gorgeous, I love the sleeves and the floral design. Might be time to expand my collection! x

    Kate Louise Blogs

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    1. Haha I totally thought the same thing at first but I'm so obsessed with them. Sassy af is the way forward, stick with the bomber!

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  10. I'm so sorry for the loss of your grandad, my thoughts are with you and your family. I know it must be hard to smile in photos despite the sadness you feel, so there's nothing wrong with opening up a bit :) You look beautiful! I adore your bomber and those sunnies are so cute, too! Thanks for sharing, beauty, and I hope you have a lovely weekend!

    XO,

    Jalisa
    www.thestylecontour.com

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    1. Thanks so much Jalisa, I really appreciate your kind words. Have an amazing weekend too!

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  11. Aw still sending you loads of love! Totally understand how you are feeling. The bomber looks lovely on you!

    Jasmin Charlotte

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    1. Thanks so much Jasmine, I really appreciate your kind words!

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  12. This is such a gorgeous outfit! Your bomber jacket is beautiful and I LOVE your choker, it's so pretty! You look stunning lovely.

    I'm really sorry to hear about your Grandad dear, sending lots of love & big hugs to you and all of your family <3 Thinking of you <3

    El xxx

    www.elsfashionfix.co.uk

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    1. Thanks so much Elise, I've been obsessed with the choker recently, can't stop wearing it!

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  13. Amazing pics, I really loved!
    - Bianca Unhas

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  14. You look SO freakin' cool in these pictures lovely, and I LOVE the bomber jacket! It's stunning! xxx

    Sam // What I Know Now

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    1. Thank you girl, so pleased you like it!

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  15. This bomber is fab! The flower details are gorgeous!

    XoXo,

    Tamara - LoveOfMode.com

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    1. Thank you Tamara, so happy you like it!

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  16. It's so nice that you're giving your Nan much-needed support. I've just got back from visiting my family in Dorset. On a side note, the bomber looks great on you

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    1. Thank you lovely, it really goes without saying. She lives with us now and is absolutely main priority :) Thank you, so pleased you like the bomber too!

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  17. Love the bomber, its super cute but onto the more important things, family is 100% most important thing in life, i think everyones allowed to take a little time out when things like this happen, you should totally just be focusing on you and your family and the good times, who cares about blogging event sometimes!

    Dana
    www.fashiondew.co.uk

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    1. Thank Dana this is a really lovely comment and something I 100% agree with.

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  18. I absolutely love this outfit, looks so comfy but amazing at the same time! And the bomber is perfection. Completely agree that family comes first, it's the most important thing!
    Amy xx
    www.callmeamy.co.uk

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    1. Ah thank you beaut, family really does come before anything!

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  19. Oh darling, family is 100% all that matters and you are amazing, these opps and more will always be there, you always have your priorities straight and you look gorgeous as always in that bomber. I totally need it in my life. Don't ever but yourself down, you are beautiful inside and out. Big love and hope we get to meet this year xx

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    1. Thanks so, so much lovely, you're such a babe! So hoping we get to meet this year!

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  20. I've been wondering about you lately. I hope you are doing better even if it has been only a month. When anniversaries strike, they can be the hardest.
    This jacket is pure sass, girl!
    Angie | Chocolate & Lipstick | Beauty, Fashion & Lifestyle Blog

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    1. Thanks so much Angela, that's so lovely of you, I really appreciate it!

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  21. This outfit is perfect for everyday, loving the Adidas, one of my favourite styles and your bomber jacket x


    Jenny | Krystel Couture + Giveaway

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    1. Thanks so much Jenny, so pleased you liked it too!

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  22. Totally agree! I love the bomber!
    Dora www.BangsBang.com

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  23. Love the jacket! And the pants. Such a great outfit!

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  24. This is such a great outfit! I love the jacket, and the sneakers! So cool!
    WritingMonique

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  25. I'm sorry about your grandad. Sending you lots of love and hugs!
    On the other hand, you look like a total babe, very chic and pretty.

    xo
    www.carinavardie.com

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    1. Thank you Carina, really appreciate that!

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  26. I love how down to earth you are despite the fact that you are an amazing blogger, it's never in your face 'look at me'. The fact that you are turning down hard earned opportunities to be with the people you love is just so inspiring. Oh and I love this outfit and the bomber jacket especially is stunning x

    Beauty with charm

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    1. Ahh thank you so much Alina, that comment means the world, you are such a babe! Family really does come first <3

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  27. I hope you're doing better, Elle! I'm so sorry this is a hard time for you. Glad you're spending time with family. Looking so chic and fantastic in this jacket with these fabulous sunnies!

    Http://leftbankgirl.blogspot.com

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    1. Thanks so much lovely, really pleased you liked the look!

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  28. Love this cute casual look! That bomber is the cutest and I need your chokers!

    <3 Shannon
    Upbeat Soles

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    1. Thanks so much lovely, love a good choker!

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  29. Gaaaal you are just so bloody beauy. That bomber jacket is the... Bomb... I need it in my life! Continuing to send you all the hugs, really nice to just spend some time with your family, they are what mean the most. Immy x

    www.immymay.com

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    1. Ahh thanks so much you mega babe, such a lovely comment!

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  30. Hope you are starting to feel a little bit better soon, I know how hard it is to have someone very close to you taken away its very hard! But always remember your Grandad will be looking down proud of you.

    I love your outfit, I think bomber jackets are just amazing. I can't stop wearing mine at the moment xx

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  31. Love the design of that bomber jacket!!! You look so pretty! =)


    - Cielo
    Mermaid in Heels

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